When Your Partner Won’t Agree to Couples Counseling

When Your Partner Won’t Agree to Couples Counseling

Every now and then, I hear from someone who is super motivated to start couples counseling, but feels stuck because his or her partner is resistant to the idea.  Talk about feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place!  No matter what your reasons are, if you want to...
Recovering from Infidelity

Recovering from Infidelity

Recovering from infidelity is possible!  I have seen couples enter the therapy room overwhelmed with feelings of shock, embarrassment, guilt, anger, grief, rage, and fear…and then after a little while, they learn how to turn towards one another, rebuild their...
Infidelity: 3 Basic Truths

Infidelity: 3 Basic Truths

Confession:  Early in my career, I was pretty disinterested in working with clients struggling with infidelity.  If you asked me why, I would probably tell you “I’m not sure I’d know how to help someone repair their relationship after they actively...